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Record every promise you make to parents

· Colin Wood

Hallway commitments become lawsuits and churn when nobody writes them down. Fix that before tryout week.

During a tryout or parent meeting there can be lots of back and forth. Questions fly. You answer generously because you care about the program.

Here’s the problem: who writes all that down?

It cannot be you in the moment. Stopping to take notes breaks the flow and makes you look unprepared. It also cannot be the parents; they’re absorbing emotional news.

Someone on your staff has to own the notes. Not eventually. That day.

Three things worth logging every time

Promises. “We’ll find a spot on another team.” “Tuition can be split.” “Your evaluator will call by Friday.” If you said it out loud, it goes in the log.

Scope changes. Maybe financial aid wasn’t in the original fee sheet. Maybe you agreed to a late registration exception. Note it while the conversation is fresh so your treasurer isn’t surprised in October.

Schedule shifts. Families plan vacations around your published calendar. If you moved evaluation night once, document who you told and how.

Why this matters more than another policy PDF

Parents don’t churn because your cut line was harsh. They churn because they heard a different story than the one in the follow-up email.

Writing things down is respect. It’s also risk management — and it scales badly in group chats. The tenth parent in a thread never sees the correction.

Make it operational, not heroic

You need:

  1. A single place offers, waitlists, and notes live (not three tabs and a Notes app)
  2. Templates for “cut,” “waitlist,” and “offer” emails so tone stays consistent
  3. An audit trail when someone asks “who told us practice moved?”

That’s the problem PlayerOps is built around: tryouts through roster, with communications that honor what you actually said.

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